Baby boomers Kathy and John Anstruther, both 60, have already used Riddell’s services to plan their funerals.
“It hopefully will make things easier on our kids when the time comes,” said Kathy Anstruther. Neither one of them has any interest in a traditional, expensive send-off — they’re opting for an eco-friendly burial in a wicker casket.
“You can spend all this money for a big fancy casket, and it’s a grand show,” said John Anstruther. “I mean, some families want to give that. For us, it doesn’t fit. We don’t need the big rah-rah.”
Kathy said she would rather save money in order to leave more of it to their children. “Everything is so expensive, and they’re the ones that will need it. I’ll be gone.”
They also would prefer an upbeat affair. “I know there will be grief,” said John, “But I also hope there are a few laughs.”
Unwilling to spend
Carey Smith, the registrar at the Bereavement Authority of Ontario, which licenses and regulates funeral businesses in the province, notes that a number of strong trends are emerging, among them:
- The rate of cremation is on the rise — from five per cent in 1967 to 65 per cent now, and still climbing steadily.
- A growing interest in eco-friendly burial, with biodegradable caskets or urns.
- Fewer elaborate ceremonies that feature two days of visitation, followed by a service and then interment at a gravesite. “Now the trend is direct cremation and a celebration of life afterwards,” says Smith.
- Embalmings are “way down.”
- Niches in mausoleums often have glass walls, so that visitors can see mementos and photographs along with with the urn containing ashes. “It reflects what the person was all about, their interests,” says Smith.
But the biggest change he’s observed is how unwilling people have become to spend a lot of money. “A full-blown funeral can cost $20,000,” he says. “A lot of people believe that might be better spent elsewhere.”
Krystal Riddell charges approx $2,200 to arrange for a basic cremation. “It’s in line with the death benefit you get from the Canada Pension Plan,” she explains. “Most people get about $2,500 from that.”
Her help with a celebration of life costs another $450. “I wanted to make my services affordable,” she says. “A lot of people live paycheque to paycheque these days.”
Corrie Galloway, 80, of Toronto has an aversion to funeral homes.
“I can’t think of anything I like about them, ” she says. “They do so many unnatural things like makeup and embalming. It creates lots of sales for them, but it’s a sanitized and expensive experience.”
She’s already told her daughter she wants a celebration of life in the party room of the building where she lives, and has arranged an eco-friendly burial.
Still, many traditional industry players are eager to deliver whatever style of farewell a family wants. “A lot of funeral homes are transforming themselves,” Smith says.
Article Courtesy of: https://www.cbc.ca/news/business/boomer-upbeat-funerals-death-dying-1.4646715