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In Loving Memory of

Joseph Patrick & Denise Marie Ann Stando

1944 ~ 2024 / 1945 ~ 2022

Obituary of Joseph Patrick & Denise Marie Ann Stando

It is with deepest sorrow that we announce the passing of Joseph Patrick Stando and his beloved wife, Denise Marie Ann Stando.

Patrick was born on May 7, 1944, and joined his beloved wife and best friend, Denise, on October 1, 2024. Denise, born on September 8, 1945, passed away on September 3, 2022.

Pat and Denise were married on October 15, 1966, and devoted their lives to building a loving home and raising their family. Patrick was a dedicated husband and father who worked at Canada Forge alongside his father, uncles and brother, retiring at the age of 63. He was an avid woodworker, enjoyed working on his hot rods, and cherished family nights.

Denise was a devoted wife and mother who furthered her education before retiring from Steve’s Welding. In her retirement, she found joy working at Wellspring Community Church. Denise loved crocheting, sewing, baking, cooking, and spending time with her children and grandchildren.

Pat and Denise were warm and loving individuals who opened their home to not only family, but to their children's childhood friends.

They are survived by their loving family, including their children Shelly Denis, Jody McIntyre (Mark), and Kristy Kenworthy (Nathan); grandchildren Chelsea, Hannah, Bella, Grace, and River. They also leave behind their siblings Gino Stando, Jesse Singer (Bud), and Guy Vachon; and many nieces and nephews. They are predeceased by their parents Gino and Ligilia Stando, and Roland and Fernande Vachon, as well as their siblings Louise Wencel, Irene McDonald, Ivan Vachon.

The family wishes to extend a special thank you to their many hardworking PSWs and nurses. Your exceptional care was deeply appreciated, as well as the support from the staff at Welland Emergency.

In accordance with Pat and Denise’s wishes, cremation has taken place, and arrangements are entrusted to Essentials Cremation and Burial Services. A celebration of their lives will be held at a later date.

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7 Condolences
Linda Bell Phillips
1 year ago

My deepest condolences to you girls. Our family grew up next door to your mom, growing up on Lincoln St. Always thought the world of your parents. Sending hugs to the family

Cheryl Hardy
2 years ago

Shelly, Jody and Kristy,

I am so so sorry to hear this news. Your parents were the greatest to all us kids, making us all feel welcomed and loved in their home. I will never forget the hours upon hours spent with them and your whole family. I am thinking of you all and you are in my prayers.
Cheryl

Eva Pomeroy
2 years ago

Dear Shelly, Jody & Kristy,
Your mom and dad were awesome – so kind and welcoming. And funny. So much of my tweens and teens were spent at your house and I always felt brought right in as part of the family. I have so many memories of that time and of both your parents. They will always be special to me.
Thinking of you all in these days and sending much, much love,
Eva

Renata Mori
2 years ago

I’m so sorry for your loss sending your family Love and light . Praying fo strength and peace to you and your family

Wendy Gauthier
2 years ago

My deepest condolences to Kristy, Jody Shelly and family❤️ so many childhood memories of time spent at all the homes Mr Stando built for his family. Always a smile on Mrs Stando’s face and nothing but positive kind words were ever spoken from her???? your loving parents will be missed.

Wendy Shinners
2 years ago

Shelly, Jody, and Kristy, I am so very sorry for your loss. As my Godparents, I remember your parents as warm, welcoming, and loving people. Visiting your family’s home on Christmas Eve is one of my fondest childhood memories. May you find comfort in your memories of them, and may they both rest in peace.

Joann Quinn.
2 years ago

Dear Jody Mark and family
Sending my deepest condolences to all of you for the loss of your parents
May they both rest in peace!

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